Dear Karma..... please check your list again....

One lesson I have learned through the years is the only person you can truly trust is yourself.  Of course you have your family and your closest friends but things like that can change in a second.  I have always been the type of person to think the best of everyone and try to see the positive.  I wish that society didn't make this increasing difficult for me everyday.  Maybe the karma fairy and I need to have a talk! If I can't believe that karma will take care of the people that mistreat others I don't know how I will stay sane!  For now I will keep my faith in her and in god that life can only get better and I just need to continue to be who I am even if I am a little to caring~

What is a Relationship anymore

I watch people these days and wonder what happened to the days when two people found each other and when they married it was forever.  Now don't get me wrong I understand things like cheating or abuse for reason to separate!  I mean the people that got together b/c they loved each other and just didn't feel like putting in the work to make it last.  Is giving up divorce too easy these days.

Maybe we are too wise to what is really happening with relationships b/c its so easy to find things out, maybe there was no truth in being faithful ever.  I know that just like in politics there is a left and a right idea on what a relationship should be and maybe I am old fashion, but when you are together shouldn't you be together?  I watch so many of my friends getting divorced and I wonder why no one seems to be able to make it anymore.  No more are you surprised by divorce you are surprised that someone is still together. 

I know that there are such things as girls night out but when did it come to if you went out it was strictly without your significant other or family? I know I can't be the only one that thinks this way!?!? The basic to every break up these days is ..... oh they went out separate all the time and he/she ended up with someone or yeah she/he found someone on the computer. 

Things aren't always going to be easy no matter if you single or not but remember why you walked down that aisle before you do something that can change everyone's life around you.

Sorry for the venting this has just been on my mind for a while!

Dog Park Dog Rules

The dog park is somewhere you can find Tank and I almost 3 nights a week ! Its my  his favorite place to go! (OK I'm not going to lie if you know me you know my obsession with dogs so I enjoy this time too!) My last two trips though have not been very enjoyable and its not because of the dogs but their Humans!  So I thought maybe these peeps need some Dog Park Rules for humans :) Please see below:

• Please remember to not bring your dog if they do not like other dogs! I would think you would realize that if you dog is trying to eat multiply dogs over and over the "I don't know why he is acting like this he never does this" will stop working!
• If you bring good looking dogs people will comment to you.  Accept the comment don't act like you can't hear them!
• Your dog will most likely get humped, yes not acceptable behavior for us, however we don't greet each other with a butt sniff either! Its not a sexy thing its a I'm the leader thing!

I controlled my urges to post this at the local dog park but thought I would share it with my blog friends :)
Have a great Thursday!

Father's Day and Gardens

The rain is back in Ohio so that means no pool this girl!  So I have found things to do to fulfil my time!  Meaning not always doing things that I love = the garden!  I walked out the other day and thought wow if I don't do something my neighbors are going to start thinking I'm lazy!  So I got Jay out there and had him dig up the huge weeds and I went behind him and throw everything out.  After that I was over it so I will have to do more today!  I will post pics when its over.

I have been trying to become organized and keep the house clean while also not rushing around in the mornings! So the new rule is Sunday pick out five outfits for work and keep them together in the bathroom so I'm not running around trying to find something to wear.  Now if I can only stick to my plan I might have a good thing going here!

Yesterday was Father's Day so we went to Cracker Barrel for my dad and had an awesome breakfast then went over to Target and Home Depot then spent the rest of the day just relaxing! 

Crazy Dog!

Tank goes to a doggy daycare here in Centerville and their are having a contest to see who has the best video of their dog going to daycare! The winner gets 5 whole days at daycare for FREE!  Here is Tank's entry!

Its Raining Golf Balls

For the entire span of my 4 years with Jay all I have heard when we hear a storm is coming is "man I hope it hails"  Well last night Centerville, Bellbrook and some other parts of town was hit pretty hard with some huge hail!  Luckily everyone was OK however we didn't come out with 100% in the clear!

As the night went on we were blessed to not be hit again however I don't think this is the last of the storms! For some reason Mother Nature seems to be pretty pissed off right now.  

Lets Get Away

So has you all know I was moving and now I'm not! The renters didn't pay their deposit before then ran off to get married so I didn't feel comfortable moving without it! That's OK I have worked on getting the condo back into living condition ( it had gotten a little messy) and now its back to being my home :) I will have to post pictures! School is almost coming to a close for my 2nd quarter! I'm not sure if I'm going to take classes in the Summer or not!

I went to FL last month for a couple of days! It was nice to just sit around and do nothing :)

I got to see my grandparents while I was there :)

And eat a whole lot!

Besides the trip everything has been a whirl wind! Dance had clinics and tryouts and then officer tryouts and we have a new team for next year! Officer is always hard b/c you know the girls on a personal level and want everyone to have everything they want which is impossible to achieve :( So you always have a broken heart of two!

Along with that Steve VanGoder is trying to win man of the year for the Cancer Society and since its the same cancer that as hit our family I have been behind him 100%. Our first event was on Friday at Steve's house and was a Monte Carlo theme. I forgot to take pictures :( but the night was a blast! I haven't drank more then a beer in a very long time so getting up and moving Saturday was not easy! What happened to those 20 something days were I was up and at the gym the next day ??? Oh Well!

Well I better get back to working :) See you soon!